Key Terms
LinkedIn Connection Request: An invitation sent to another LinkedIn user to join your professional network. The recipient can accept, ignore, or decline the request.
Connection Message: The personalized note you attach to a LinkedIn connection request explaining who you are and why you want to connect.
Warm Introduction: A connection request preceded by a referral or introduction from a mutual contact, which significantly increases the likelihood of acceptance.
Mutual Connection: A LinkedIn user who is connected to both you and the person you want to reach out to, serving as a shared point of reference or trust.
Cold Outreach: Contacting someone you have no prior relationship with and no mutual connections, making personalization and clear value especially important.
Personalization: Tailoring a connection message to the specific recipient using details like their name, job title, published content, or shared experiences so the message could not be sent to anyone else.
LinkedIn remains the strongest platform for professional networking. Whether you are looking for new prospects, expanding your secondary network, or building industry relationships, sending effective connection requests is essential. You can read more about optimizing your profile in our guide to writing a LinkedIn summary, or compare subscription options in our breakdown of LinkedIn Sales Navigator vs. LinkedIn Premium. But you do not need a paid subscription to take advantage of LinkedIn’s most valuable feature: the ability to connect with other professionals.
This guide covers why expanding your LinkedIn network matters, the best reasons to send a connection request, the qualities that make a message effective, and templates for ten common scenarios you can adapt and personalize.
Why Should You Reach Out to New LinkedIn Connections?
Quick Answer: More connections mean more sales opportunities, a broader secondary network, more mutual connections that boost your reputation, and a higher success rate for future outreach.
Every new connection is a potential sales opportunity. You can learn about new prospects, build rapport, and eventually sell to them. But even if someone is not a direct prospect, they may know one. Every new node in your network gets you one step closer to a potential sale.
A larger network also means more mutual connections with more people, which boosts your credibility. When a prospective connection sees that you share several contacts, they are more likely to accept your request and more likely to trust you during future interactions. This compounds over time — a bigger network leads to higher success rates for future connection attempts and, ultimately, higher close rates.
What Are the Best Reasons to Send a LinkedIn Connection Request?
Quick Answer: The strongest reasons are having met in person, having met online, wanting a warm introduction, sharing mutual connections, working in the same field, or being in the same geographic area.
Reaching out to people randomly generates angry messages, not new connections. Starting with a clear reason for your outreach dramatically improves acceptance rates. Here are six reasons, ordered from strongest to weakest.
You met them in person. This is the strongest position. You meet someone at a networking event, conference, or workplace, exchange a quick “we should connect on LinkedIn,” and then send the request. As long as you made a decent impression, the connection will almost certainly be accepted.
You met them online elsewhere. If you interacted with this person in an online community, forum, or social media thread, you already have some rapport. Referencing where you met gives them a reason to accept your request.
You want a warm introduction. If you share a mutual connection, ask that person to introduce you. A warm introduction from a trusted contact gives your prospective connection a reason to reply and accept.
You share mutual connections. Even without a formal introduction, sharing multiple mutual connections signals credibility. The more contacts you have in common, the warmer the request feels.
You work in the same field. Reaching out to someone with the same job title or industry focus can work, though it requires more effort to explain why the connection is valuable. Be specific about what you hope to discuss or learn.
You are in the same geographic area. You might find a valuable prospect in your area who does not share other commonalities. Geographic proximity is a weaker connection point but can still work when combined with a friendly, specific message.
What Makes a LinkedIn Connection Request Message Successful?
Quick Answer: Effective connection messages are original, concise, transparent about motivation, personalized to the recipient, include light flattery, come across as friendly, and are free of errors.
LinkedIn populates new connection requests with the default message “I’d like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn.” This generic text does not stand out and gets ignored. A successful connection message needs seven qualities.
Originality. Recipients see the same default message constantly. Writing something unique immediately sets you apart. Use templates as a starting point, not a script to copy verbatim.
Conciseness. People are busy. Long messages get deleted. Keep yours to a few sentences — recipients will not read more than that from an unknown connection.
Motivation transparency. Explain clearly why you are reaching out. People detect ulterior motives, and they will not tolerate someone who seems insincere. State your reason directly.
Personalization. Your message should not make sense if sent to anyone else. Leading with the person’s name is a start, but referencing their job title, a piece of content they published, or a shared experience is what makes the message truly personal.
Flattery. A brief compliment — such as “I’d love to hear more of your thoughts on this” — goes a long way without taking up the whole message.
Friendliness. Drop the salesperson mindset. You are a friendly person trying to meet another friendly person. Show your personality and make it seem like you would be a good connection to have.
Correctness. Proofread your message. A spelling error or grammatical mistake in a two-sentence message looks careless and hurts your credibility. Part of being an effective salesperson is attention to detail.
What Are the Best LinkedIn Connection Request Templates for People You Know?
Quick Answer: For people you already know — in-person contacts, coworkers, and former colleagues — reference how you met, acknowledge the existing relationship, and keep the message warm and personal.
These templates cover situations where you have some existing relationship with the recipient. Adapt each one with specific details rather than copying and pasting verbatim.
Someone you met in person. When you have already met face-to-face, half the work is done. Reference where you met in case they need a reminder.
“Hi [Name], it was great speaking with you at [event]. I’d love to stay in touch and connect on LinkedIn in the meantime. Talk soon, [Your Name]”
A coworker you have never directly met. Acknowledge the situation directly, then explain why you want to connect.
“Hi [Name], I don’t think we’ve had the chance to meet yet, but I’ve heard great things about your work in [department]. Thought I’d reach out and connect. Hope to meet in person soon! [Your Name]”
A new coworker. Be welcoming and make yourself available as a resource.
“Hey [Name], welcome to the [company] team! Feel free to message me with any questions. Hopefully we can connect in person soon. [Your Name]”
A former coworker. Reference your shared history and suggest reconnecting.
“Hi [Name], it was a pleasure working with you at [company]. I wanted to reconnect and see how things are going. Let me know if you have time to catch up! [Your Name]”
A casual acquaintance. Acknowledge how you know each other and express interest in learning more.
“Hi [Name], we’ve crossed paths a few times through [shared contact or location], but I noticed we weren’t connected on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear more about your work at [company]. [Your Name]”
What Are the Best LinkedIn Connection Request Templates for People You Do Not Know?
Quick Answer: For strangers, reference something specific — a shared connection, content they published, your shared industry, or your geographic area — and keep the message concise, transparent, and friendly.
These templates cover cold or semi-cold outreach where you do not have a prior relationship. Personalization and a clear reason for connecting are especially important in these scenarios.
Someone you found online. Reference where you encountered their content and add genuine interest or flattery.
“Hey [Name], I saw your post in [group or platform] and found it really interesting. I’d love to hear more of your thoughts on [topic]. [Your Name]”
Someone with mutual connections. Use your shared contacts as a trust signal.
“Hi [Name], we haven’t met yet, but I saw we share a connection in [mutual contact]. I’d like to hear more about your work at [company] and see if there’s an opportunity to help each other out. [Your Name]”
Someone in the same line of work. Be specific about what you want to discuss to give them a reason to respond.
“[Name], as a fellow [role or industry], I wanted to reach out and get your thoughts on [specific topic or trend]. Do you think it’s going to change the way we do business? [Your Name]”
Someone in the same geographic area. Use your shared location as the connection point and position yourself as building a local network.
“[Name], I’m building my professional network here in [city] and came across your profile. Do you have any tips for connecting with other professionals in the area? [Your Name]”
Someone who could use your product or service. This is a harder sell and generally not recommended as an introductory message — starting with a warm, relationship-focused message is usually more effective. But if you choose this approach, personalize it heavily and lead with the benefit to the recipient.
“Hi [Name], do you ever struggle with [problem]? I recently found a system that helped me [specific result]. Would you be interested in hearing more? [Your Name]”
How Do You Transition From LinkedIn to Email?
Quick Answer: After establishing a LinkedIn connection, move detailed conversations, proposals, and follow-ups to email. Tracking email metrics like response time helps you optimize your outreach.
LinkedIn is a strong starting point, but most professional communication eventually moves to email. Once you have established a connection and built initial rapport on LinkedIn, email is the better medium for detailed discussions, proposals, and follow-up sequences.
The key to effective email communication is understanding how your outreach performs. Tracking metrics like email volume, thread development, and average response time gives you visibility into what is working and what needs improvement. EmailAnalytics helps you visualize these metrics so you can optimize your communication after the initial LinkedIn introduction. Sign up for a free trial to see how it works.
Frequently Asked Questions About LinkedIn Connection Request Messages
Why should you send personalized LinkedIn connection requests?
Personalized messages dramatically outperform the default LinkedIn request. They show the recipient that you have a specific reason for connecting, which builds trust and increases acceptance rates. The default message — “I’d like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn” — is generic and gets ignored.
What makes a LinkedIn connection request message effective?
An effective message is original, concise (a few sentences at most), transparent about your motivation, personalized to the recipient, includes light flattery, comes across as friendly, and is free of spelling or grammar errors. Messages that combine these seven qualities stand out from the hundreds of generic requests people receive.
What are the best reasons to send a LinkedIn connection request?
The strongest reasons are having met in person, having met online, wanting a warm introduction through a mutual contact, sharing mutual connections, pursuing similar work, or being in the same geographic area. The stronger your reason, the higher your acceptance rate. Reaching out randomly without a clear reason generates negative responses.
Should you use the default LinkedIn connection message?
No. The default message is the single most common connection request people receive and does nothing to differentiate you. Always write a custom message that explains who you are and why you want to connect, even if it is only two or three sentences.
How long should a LinkedIn connection request be?
Keep it to a few sentences. Recipients will not read long messages from people they do not know. A concise message stating who you are, why you are reaching out, and what value the connection offers is far more effective than a lengthy introduction.
Should you pitch your product in a LinkedIn connection request?
Generally no. Starting with a warm, relationship-building message is more effective than pitching in your first contact. If sales is your ultimate goal, build rapport first and transition to your offer after establishing a connection. Cold sales pitches in connection requests have very low acceptance rates.
How do you personalize a LinkedIn connection message?
Reference something specific to the recipient — their job title, a piece of content they published, a mutual connection, a shared event, or your geographic area. The test is whether the message would make sense if sent to someone else. If it could go to anyone, it is not personalized enough. Being an effective communicator means tailoring your approach to each person, which is a core sales skill.
How do you move from LinkedIn to email communication?
Once you have established rapport through a LinkedIn connection, transition to email for detailed discussions, proposals, and follow-ups. Tracking your average email response time and other metrics helps you measure and improve your outreach effectiveness after the initial LinkedIn introduction.

Jayson is a long-time columnist for Forbes, Entrepreneur, BusinessInsider, Inc.com, and various other major media publications, where he has authored over 1,000 articles since 2012, covering technology, marketing, and entrepreneurship. He keynoted the 2013 MarketingProfs University, and won the “Entrepreneur Blogger of the Year” award in 2015 from the Oxford Center for Entrepreneurs. In 2010, he founded a marketing agency that appeared on the Inc. 5000 before selling it in January of 2019, and he is now the CEO of EmailAnalytics and OutreachBloom.



